Wednesday, April 10, 2002

Here are some ways you can build better relationships with coworkers:

  • Take time to try to understand others. Find out what's important to them, and why. They may be from a different generation or cultural background; look for ways to get to know them better.
  • Cultivate habits of dependability and honesty in all your interactions.
  • Encourage people however you can. Compliment them on their work. Cheer them on when they take risks, and thank them when they do things for you.
  • Listen well; listening more than you speak.
  • If you are mistreated by a difficult person, don't take it personally. Set boundaries when dealing with difficult people. Respond positively to their positive behaviour. Don't give their negative behaviour too much attention, thereby reinforcing it.
  • Keep the lines of communication open. Inform coworkers about your projects and schedules. Ask them how their work is going.
  • Remember, people have different learning styles -visual, auditory, or kinesthetic.
  • Consider the different personalities your coworkers have. Are they outgoing -thriving on being around people, or reserved -preferring to work alone? Find the best ways to use these personalities when working together as a team.

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