10 Public Speaking Mistakes
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Why is it an otherwise successful person gets up to speak and puts the audience to sleep? They fail to recognize giving a speech is a learned skill that needs practise and feedback to develop.
Toastmasters International lists the following as the 10 biggest public speaking mistakes. If you want to make a positive impression as a speaker, learn to avoid the following:
- Starting with a whimper. Don’t start with “Thank you for that kind introduction.” Start with a bang! Give the audience a startling statistic, an interesting quote, a news headline – something powerful that will get their attention immediately.
- Attempting to imitate other speakers. Authenticity is lost when you aren’t yourself.
- Failing to “work” the room. Your audience wants to meet you. If you don’t take time to mingle before the presentation, you lose an opportunity to enhance your credibility with your listeners.
- Failing to use relaxation techniques. Do whatever it takes – listening to music, breathing deeply, shrugging your shoulders – to relieve nervous tension.
- Reading a speech word for word. This will put the audience to sleep. Instead use a “keyword” outline: Look at the keyword to prompt your thoughts. Look into the eyes of the audience, then speak.
- Using someone else’s stories. It’s okay to use brief quotes from other sources, but to connect with the audience, you must illustrate your most profound thoughts from your own life experiences. If you think you don’t have any interesting stories to tell, you are not looking hard enough.
- Speaking without passion. The more passionate you are about your topic, the more likely your audience will act on your suggestions.
- Ending a speech with questions and answers. Instead, tell the audience that you will take questions and then say, “We will move to our closing point.” After the Q and A, tell a story that ties in with your main theme, or summarize your key points. Conclude with a quote or call to action.
- Failing to prepare. Your reputation is at stake every time you face an audience – so rehearse well enough to ensure you’ll leave a good impression!
- Failing to recognize that speaking is an acquired skill. Effective executives learn how to present in the same way they learn to use other tools to operate their businesses
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Thanks!
You’ve posted some excellent information.
Here is another site that has information about Public Speaking that you, and your readers, will find helpful.
http://www.nosweatpublicspeaking.com/
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Ian,
Great post.
I’ve worked with one of the ToastMasters World Champions of Public Speaking and he once said, “To be better tomorrow, practice and get on that stage TODAY!”
Andrew